Let her set the pace, and don't be critical unless its serious. I watched a guy turn his wife off to shooting, who showed up enthusiastic, because he was too controlling in expecting results. He would tell her to adjust, and express upset when results didn't pan out. He made her feel like she was doing it all wrong, rather than just having fun. By the time they packed their stuff, I could tell she wasn't into it. I always let the person squeeze a few before pointing trying to aim, just so they get that smile on their face first. ;-) You can't fight that smile...
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